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MATERIALS FROM JEFFERSON COUNTY, TEXAS TREATMENT PROGRAM Various authors These are taken from materials Tana's son Tony was required to use in his treatment program. Bold and capitalized text, and typographical errors appear here as in the original. THE STATE OF TEXAS VS: _____________ CAUSE NUMBER: ________ The conditions of probation are hereby amended to include the following rule for the Sex Offender Group... 7. PARTICIPATION IN SEX OFFENDER GROUP INCLUDES: a. Accepting responsibility for your offense(s) and unerstanding the emotional impact of he offense to the victim. b. Participation and completion of all homework assignments. c. Attempt to change you behavior by changing your lifestyle in order to minimize the risk of reoffending. This includes learning techniques for intervening when deviant impulses arise and a willingness to implement them. d. Have personal agenda item prepared and ready to present at each group meeting. If the probationer does not have an agenda item prepared he/she will not get credit for that group... 11. Noncompliance of any of these rules may result in immediate and unsuccessful termination from the group. This may also result in a MOTION TO REVOKE YOUR PROBATION. THINKING
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Some deviant sexual behaviors are simple and
repetitive--like cruising bars, aimless driving, looking at possible
victims and masturbating--and become mindless habits requiring no
conscious thought. You perform these behaviors over and over,
almost like a ritual. You may use them often to help keep you in
a state of mind that forgets the real world.Many other deviant behaviors require a lot of thought. Your thinking might be in the form of planning, fantasizing, or self-talk. Your thinking is always flawed or distorted when you are in a deviant sexual cycle. No matter which type of thinking you are doing, if you are planning a crime you are not thinking clearly. To change your life you can't just change the bad behaviors; you must learn to change how you think. You need to understand your flaws in thinking to change your deviant behavior. "Stinking Thinking" Leads to Deviant Behavior No one likes to be told that their thoughts and feelings are flawed or distorted. But many people occasionally think, feel, and behave in distorted ways--like getting a flat tire and calling the car "stupid." Clear, effective thinking would be telling yourself that you need to check your tires routinely to make sure they are not getting bald or don't have nails in them. When you look closely at your life, you find that your deviant cycle involves "thinking errors," lies you tell yourself, and other distortions. In this workbook we call this kind of "stinking thinking" a thinking defect. Two forensic psychologists, Drs. Yochelson and Samenow, have described a series of thought and behavior patterns used by criminals. These thinking defects are very specific about what goes on in an individual's mind and can apply to anyone. Below is a list of some thinking defects (adapted from their list) sex offenders usually use. When you are honest with yourself, you will recognize a number of them in your own thinking. 1. Playing Dumb: No self-confidence... 2. Ranting and Raging: Thoughts focus on anger, outrage, hostility,... 3. "The One-and-Only": Thoughts focus on excessive pride, narcissism... 4. The Dominator: Thoughts focus on control, overpowering others,... 5. Polarizing: Thoughts focus on seeing the world as two clearly different sides... 6. Scatterbrained: Unable to stay on track in a conversation... 7. Great Expectations: Unrealistic optimism... 8. Trash City: Everything is bad... 9. Lies, Secrets, and Silence: Dishonesty, big lies and little ones... 10. Paranoia: Constant suspicion... 11. One-track Mind: Thoughts narrow down to one idea, or one side of an issue... 12. Projecting: Taking your own problems and putting them on others... 13. The Victim: Focusing on seeing the wold as an unjust unfair place... 14. Mean-and-Nasty: Thoughts focus on being belligerent, hostile, aggresive, rude... 15. "Not My Fault": Irresponsible thinking... 16. Denial: Pretending things aren't as bad as they are, denying the truth... 17. Blaming: Pushing your responsibility off on someone else, not being accountable... 18. "All Mine": A false sense of ownership, a feeling of being entitled... 19. Worrywart: Anxiety, focusing on fear, dread, distress... 20. Clinging Vine: Can't do anything by yourself... 21. Phony Fawning: Being superficial, insincere, running a con... 22. "Later, Man": Procrastinating, avoiding responsibility by putting things off... 23. "Who Cares": Indifference, apathy, detachment... 24. Doormat: Being passive and unassertive... 25. "Not So Bad": Minimizing, belittling the significance of your behavior... These are just some of the thinking defects... ASSIGNMENT Write down at least ten (10) thinking defects that apply to you. Give an example of how you have used each defect in your life... CLARKE SEXUAL HISTORY
QUESTIONNAIRE - MALE
Section A The following items refer to
sexual experience with females 16 or older.
1. About how many girls or women have you gone out with on dates since the age of 16? 2. How many girls or women have you kissed on the lips since the age of 16? 3. How many girls or women have you touched on the breasts since the age of 16? 4. How many girls or women have you touched on the naked breasts since the age of 16? 5. With how many girls or women have you kissed or put your mouth on their breasts since you were 16 years of age? ... 12. How many TIMES have you kissed or put your mouth between the legs of a girl or woman, since the age of 16? 13. With how many different girls or women 16 and older have you done this? 14. How many TIMES have girls or women done this to you, since the age of 16? 15. How many different girls or women have done this to you? 16. How many times have you put your finger into the rear end (rectum) of a girl or woman since the age of 16? 17. How many times have girls or women done this to you? 18. How many times have you put your penis into the rear end (rectum) of a girl or woman since the age of 16? 19. How many times have you touched the rear end of a girl or woman with your mouth since the age of 16? Section B
The following items refer to
sexual experience with girls 12 and younger (those who have not reached
puberty, that is, physical maturity).
[23 questions similar to the above] SECTION C
The following items refer to
sexual experience with girls 13 to 15 years of age (those who are
puberty or in the process of physical
maturity).
[23 similar questions] SECTION D
The following items refer to male sexual partners age 16 and older.[13 similar questions] SECTION E
The following items refer to male sexual partners 12 and younger (those
who have not reached puberty that is, physical maturity).[13 similar questions] SECTION F
The following items refer to male partners 13-15, those undergoing
puberty, that is, changing from child to a physically mature person.[13 similar questions] SECTION G
Answer all questions.Have you ever worn articles of women's clothing or tried them on, since the age of 16? 106. Skirt or dress? How many times? 107. Undergarments? How many times? 108. Stockings? How many times? 109. Shoes? How many times? 110. Jewelry ? How many times? 111. Wigs? How many times? Have you ever masturbated or had climax (some people call this "coming" orgasm, or ejaculating semen) in other ways while wearing articles of women's clothing? 112. Skirt or dress? How many times? 113. Undergarments? How many times? 114. Stockings? How many times? 115. Shoes? How many times? 116. Jewelry ? How many times? 117. Wigs? How many times? 118. Since you were 16, have you ever secretly and intentionally tried to see a man and a woman having sexual relations by looking in windows or by other means (not counting movies and sex shows?) How many times? 119. If your answer to #118 is 1 or more times, did you masturbate or have a climax in other ways while watching a man and woman having sex relations? How many times? ... [more questions about peeping, making obscene phone calls, rubbing against people in a crowd, rape, masochism, sadism, exhibitionism] ... 150. Have you ever masturbated with your penis out of your pants, in some place such as a car, alleyway or park, thinking that nobody could see you? How many times? 151. Have you ever had sexual contact with your mother? How many times? 152. Have you ever had sexual contact with your daughter? How many times? 153. Have you ever had sexual contact with your father? How many times? 154. Have you ever had sexual contact with your son? How many times? 155. Have you ever taken part in group sex? How many times? 156. Have you ever had a climax during group sex? How many times? 157. Have you ever been sexually excited by the thought of fire? How many times? 158. Have you ever had a climax while thinking about fire? How many times? ... SECTION H
172. When is the last time you exposed your penis in public?...
a) 1 or 2 days ago b) 3 - 7 days ago c) 2 or 3 weeks ago d) 1 or 2 months ago e) 3 - 6 months ago f) 7 - 12 months ago g) 1 - 2 years ago h) 2 - 3 years ago i) 4 - 5 years ago j) over 5 years ago 173. If a girl or woman who saw you wanted to go some place to have sexual relations with you, what would you do? a) run away b) walk away c) go with her 174. Have you ever used vulgar language on the person who say you? How many times? a) never b) sometimes c) often d) almost always e) always SECTION I
175. Has a sex partner ever complained that they were not
satisfied after having sex with you? a) no b) yes176. How many partners complained? a) none b) a few c) quiet a few d) almost all e) all ... 185. In the past six months have you been unable to come (climax, ejaculate) by any means? a) no b) yes 186. Have you lost all desire for sex in the past month? a) no b) yes SEXUAL RESPONSIVENESS SURVEY
by R.J. Pion, M.D., S. Anderson, and N1.. Wagner, Ph.D ...
23. Are you satisfied with your sexual relationship? 24. Do sexual fantasies or daydreams play a role in arousing you before intercourse? 25. Do you have sexual dreams? 26. If yes, do you hae orgasm with sexual dreams? 27. Have you ever had orgasm? 28. Have you ever had orgasm with intercourse? 29 Is simultaneous orgasm necessary for you nd partner for complete satisfaction? 30. Is it acceptable for you or partner to have orgasm before vaginal penetration? 31. How does your orgasm occur? During vaginal intercourse __ By fantasy and daydreams ___ By manual stimulation (by partner) ___ By manual stimulation by yourself _ By several of above means ___ Doesn't occur 32. How does your partner's orgasm occur? ... 72. Have you masturbated to orgasm? 73. Do you masturbate now? If yes, do you have orgasm? 74. Do you often have guilt feelings regarding masturbation? 75. Do you feel sexually attracted to a member of the same sex? 76. Are there any problems not discussed in this survey? SEXUAL PLEASURE INVENTORY - MALE
Jack S. Annon, Ph.D.
ENABLING SYSTEMS INC.
The items in this questionnaire refer to sexually related activities and experiences that may lead to arousal or other pleasant feelings. For each item, place a check in the box under the column that describes how much pleasure, if any, it brings you nowadays.
Ray Coxe, PhD
Psychologist Forensic and Family Psychology AMMONIA RELIEF 1. Have the subject develop
a deviant fantasy.
2. Have the subject imagine in this devaint fantasy that he has just seen the potential victim. This is a scene where he chooses not to offend and feels great about not doing it. 3. The subject wil 1) imagine the scene, and say 2) "I see the child (or woman)" and "I approach the child." 4. The subject will also develop and escape scene. This is a scene in which he is succeeding at a task or feeling good about a personal achievement. 5. The following sequence should be followed on a daily basis for one week. a. The subject says, "I see the child," "I approach the child," tkae a smell from the ammonia bottle. b. The subject says, "I see the child," and takes a smell from the ammonia bottle. c. The subject says, "I see the child," "I approach the child," takes a whiff of ammonia and verbally describes the odor such as, "This stuff makes he puke." d. The subject says, "I see the child," whiffs the ammonia and then verbally describes the ammonia. e. The subject says, "I see the child," "I move toward the child," whiffs the ammonia, verbally describes the negative feelings, and then verbalizes his escape fantasy, "I am leaving the area and I feel great because I didn't screw up anybody life and I don't have to go to prison." f. The subject says, "I see the child," whiffs the ammonia, makes his negative statement, and then describes his escape scene. g. The subject then says, "I see the child," and "I move toward the child," and describes his escape scene. f. The subject then says, "I see the child," and describes his escape scene. The subject goes through the entire exercise for one week maintaining a daily log either on audio tape or written. Each day he evaluates the potency of the fantasy by rating it from 1 to 10 with 10 being the most potent. Regents Park - 87 IH-10 North -
Suite 115 - Beaumont, Texas 77707
Telephone: (409) 833-7946 Ray Coxe, PhD
Psychologist Forensic and Family Psychology
1. The probation will experience a non-orgasm by either
masturbating to a non-deviant fantasy or through consenting non-deviant
thoughts.Satiation Training 2. Immediately following orgasm he will make a 10 minute audio tape describing a part of his deviant fantasy. 3. The probationer will make five satiation tapes in one week and the beginning of each tape will include the date, place, time, and session number. Regents Park - 87 IH-10 North -
Suite 115 - Beaumont, Texas 77707
Telephone: (409) 833-7946 Ray Coxe, PhD Psychologist
Forensic and Family Psychology
STOP THOUGHT - RUBBER BAND TECHNIQUE 1. The probation will wear a
rubber band for one week and keep a daily log.
2. Each time the probation has a negative or deviant thought, he will yell "stop" to himself and snap the rubber band. He will then make a mark on his daily log. Regents Park - 87 IH-10 North -
Suite 115 - Beaumont, Texas 77707
Telephone: (409) 833-7946 AN OPEN LETTER Revised version
1. I am a sex offender and I always will be. We both need to remember this. I am in the process of getting help to reduce the possibility of reoffense. You can participate in this process. 2. I will lie to you. Don't accept my evasions of the truth becaue this will encourage me to lie. Half-truths should be treated as a full-fledged lie. The truth may be painful, but is must be faced. You are encouraged to pursue the truth when you feel that I am being devious. 3. I will try to outsmart you. This will allow me to avoid responsibility and lose respect for myself at the same time... 4. I will not keep my promises; I have not kept them in the past. The nature of my deviant behavior prevents me from keeping them even though I mean them at the time... 5. I will exploit you and take advantage of you... 6. I will try to avoid the responsibility of my own actions... 7. I will be unresponsive to your emotions... 8. I will cover up and try to spare myself the consequences of my actions. This may reduce the crisis, but it will make my sexually deviant behaviors worse... 9. I will run away from reality... 10. I will encourage your participation in a support group which exists to help the partners of sex offenders. This will help you meet the needs you have which result from my behavior. A SEX OFFENDER CLARIFICATION CARDS NAME THE GOOD QUALITY Sex Offenders pick children with real nice qualities and they misuse these nice qualities in children. Offender will describe the nice qualities in the child they offended and then tell a story of this child's nice quality. Close it up: The offender will write in some way that there is absolutely nothing wrong with the child for having these qualities. In fact these qualities are the best things people have and you should keep them. There is only something wrong with people like me (offender) who use these special things about kids.
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